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We have another short post for yall so at the end I am including a list of good and bad first dates to reflect on this journey June 2, 2024 I travelled a good way for Date #41 – an hour drive to Columbia, MD for a bowling date. He said he would pay for my gas so he already had points in my book. We met at Main Event , an entertainment center similar to Dave & Busters, and something told me to arrive early because why would I not think it would be crowded at the mall on a Sat

April 26th, 2024 I was attending a “Friends in DC” event at Metrobar , an outside bar in NW DC for a trivia game night. I was seated in...

Since this one will be a short post I’ve included a list of first-date questions/topics for when conversations get stale. Keep reading to...

I didn’t expect for this story to be told in two parts, but here it goes: So Germany goes back to Germany and I truly did think we...

This story isn’t family appropriate and although all are welcome to read, content may be uncomfortable for some March 21, 2024 So in my...

March 16, 2024 For this date I got invited to PlantHouse  in Arlington, VA to a terrarium-making workshop. If you don’t know what that...

February 17, 2024 I met #35 at Punch Bowl Social  in Arlington, VA. By this time I’m already familiar with the place so although I like...

January 21, 2024 I was turned off by #34 the minute I walked into the restaurant. I’m not saying he was a catfish, but it was obvious he...

February - March 2024 Ivory knew I was looking for a job, so the day after we agreed to stop all communication, he sent me a position he...

January 2024 A week after our New Year's conversation, he called me, and like we agreed… he updated me on a few things that had happened...

Not a lot of time had passed before Ivory and I had spoken again, I’m talking a few days. Honestly, it was as if the conversation had...

October 14th, 2023 Date #33, we’ll call him Ivory being that he was from Ivory Coast, was the first guy I dated “seriously” after...

Title explanation:  These next three guys are the only ones from my whole dating series that I cannot recall their name off the top of my...

April 27, 2023 Around this time is when I started therapy. There wasn’t a specific reason or event that led me to it, just needing...

Fall/Winter 2022 #28 was my second heartbreak since moving, and took me the longest to get over (word on the street is I’m still trying...

August 6, 2022 Date #26 was my third first date in a row. But unlike the first two, this one ended right after the date… sort of. He was...

August 5th, 2022 Cameron (Date #24) and Date #25 (nicknamed Rain) are two guys I dated at the exact same time which almost never...

August 4th, 2022 “Whoever gets there first shares their location,” Date #24 texted me. We agreed to meet up at the Washington Monument...

Author’s Note: In no way should Date #23 have his own post but the next two dates will have their own and I wanted to continue keeping...

October 2023 I started dating someone else, again… and was more into him than I was Syre. Of course I’m posting him, us going out, what...